Historical Soapbox

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I can only imagine if people were so selfish 5 years ago then most of us would ourselves not have found heaven….
Yeah, I’d still be dodging scam artists in Nevada — wouldn’t wish that fate on anyone.

I see this more and more over the years as I expand my experience. I get emails from guys who claim that a girl is “THE BEST” or that Im wrong that my perception of her is different. Well im here to tell you that this is why they have a selection of women at the clubs. What rings one guys bell might not ring the other. The guy who thinks he knows what is best is in fact WRONG. There could be hundreds of reasons why a certain woman is good for one guy and not to another.

One of my favorites which I recommended to someone was reported as too mechanical. I guess we have different terms of women too as I would call her too intense if anything but never mechanical. Then I can see why different opinions come about. One guy might say Asian women are the best while another is turned off by them. It’s all a matter of taste which is why we don’t all eat meat and potatoes. Can’t we all agree that this is what makes selection good? Human nature is not like a machine.

The only way we could have a standard that might make any sense is if we all had the same experinces. We all visited the same girls, did the same things, had the same chemistry and paid the same money. This however is almost impossible and if anything we can only be general. What works for me is to figure out the taste of another monger and then see if that taste is similar to mine. I can then get an idea of what they like and what I like. This still does not mean that I’ll always agree but at least I have a general idea.

How many times have they had a Miss Universe contest and you felt the wrong girl won? When they show you the final ten it’s amazing at who we select to be the best.

This is important when people read my reports like F**K Fest 2001 and make assumptions that they know what Im talking about when they don’t. I get guys that have never met me thinking they know more then me or have better taste. Obviously this is about ego and not the subject matter. Taste is to each their own and anyone who thinks they have better taste has themselves a supeiority problem. While one girl rings one guys bell she might totally fail with another. This does not make her bad nor the guy an idiot for not enjoying his time with her. It also does not mean that fellow does not know good sex from bad but merely that tastes differ and no one is best.

Then again the same people that seem to have this opinion make many other ASSUMPTIONS about other things they know nothing about. It’s never been too hard to figure out that if a guy can’t even speak German how can he really understand what is going on. Some rationalize “I have good friends that speak German” which is second hand news so how good is that? Please also understand that what the actual club owners think and a few visitors is miles apart.

I’ve sat with a few club owners over the years and had conversations in their language as well as mine. I find what they say to be fact and not rumors, egos or assumptions by a few visitors. When it comes down to it the owners want money, they’re interested in safety and they want customer base. The rest is all bullshit that is based on jealousy and ego by a few guys that think that no one else should know about the FKK scene.

For example they find out about Germany on the internet, visit and are impressed. Now selfish as they are they feel they need to supress the info and only give it to people they feel need to know. I find this wrong as I found Germany’s FKK scene via the internet (the World Sex Guide.org) and do my best to return info to the web which helped me.

Just remember we are all different, we all have different tastes (standards) and reasons to visit prostitutes. Some of us have respect for how we ourselves came about to find these women or places while others think it’s their selfish right.

So when you read a report by someone you don’t really know take it as a grain of salt. Be open and do your homework and by all means give back to the internet if it gave to you. I can only imagine if people were so selfish 5 years ago then most of us would ourselves not have found heaven….

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